Tired of the endless swiping on dating apps in search of the perfect match? You’re not alone! Luckily, Jennifer Lopez has shared some valuable advice that might just change your perspective on dating.
J. Lo’s Bold Statement
In a recent episode of Tinder’s “Swipe Sessions,” Jennifer Lopez offered her wisdom to Brooke, a 29-year-old country singer exploring her dating options. Lopez’s advice was striking: “Guys, until they’re 33, are really useless.”
Understanding the Context
Before you write off this advice as too harsh, it’s important to understand the reasoning behind it. Relationship expert Jane Greer, author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship, provides context to Lopez’s bold claim. She explains that men often need time to achieve career stability, financial security, and a sense of personal accomplishment—milestones typically reached in their early 30s. This period of growth often contributes to their readiness for a committed relationship.
However, this doesn’t imply that men in their 20s should be dismissed outright. It simply offers insight into why some men become more inclined toward serious commitments once they reach their 30s.
Greer elaborates, noting, “Sometimes you see a guy who’s been in several relationships but then, in his early 30s, suddenly he meets a woman and is ready to marry her.”
Embracing Your Worth
While Jennifer Lopez’s advice may not apply universally, the core message is to recognize your own worth and set standards that reflect it. As you navigate the dating world, remember to value yourself and be selective about who you invest your time and energy in.
So, next time you’re swiping through profiles, ask yourself, “What would Jennifer Lopez do?” Keep in mind that dating should be about finding someone who truly appreciates and values you.
