This past Sunday, Donald Trump made history by becoming the first sitting U.S. president to attend the Super Bowl. He was joined by several family members, including his children Eric and Ivanka Trump, at the event in New Orleans. However, one notable person was absent—Melania Trump, the former First Lady. Her absence quickly became the subject of widespread speculation on social media.
While some social media users expressed concern or curiosity over Melania’s absence, others humorously speculated about possible reasons, even suggesting she might be filing for divorce. Despite the public interest, there has been no official explanation for why she was not at the event with her husband.
Melania Trump’s Evolving Role as First Lady
Melania Trump’s return to the public eye as First Lady has brought renewed attention to her role and personal life. After Donald Trump’s presidency ended in 2021, the couple stepped away from the political spotlight, but now, with a potential return to the White House in sight, Melania has again found herself at the center of public discussion.
While her time outside the political sphere was mostly quiet, speculation surrounding her marriage and role as First Lady continues to persist. Her 2017 inauguration revealed some discomfort in the public eye, as experts pointed to her choice of a wide-brimmed hat, which seemed to act as a barrier when Donald Trump tried to kiss her during the ceremony. Observers noted that there was a lack of eye contact, smiles, or hand-holding between the couple, suggesting discomfort with the attention.
Melania’s Independence and Her Relationship with Donald Trump

Despite the public perception of her as a reserved figure, Melania Trump has consistently emphasized her independence. She has openly discussed how she doesn’t always agree with her husband, but she is not afraid to voice her opinions. In an interview, Melania explained, “Maybe some people see me as just a wife of the President, but I’m standing on my own two feet, independent, I have my own thoughts, I have my own ‘yes’ and ‘no.’”
This emphasis on independence is a core part of how Melania navigates her role in the public eye. Although she is often viewed through the lens of her husband’s presidency, she has always tried to maintain her own identity and voice, even in matters where she and Donald Trump do not see eye to eye.
Behind the Scenes: Melania as a Supportive Wife and Strong Figure
Melania Trump’s role as a supportive partner to Donald Trump has often been discussed, but her photographer, Régine Mahaux, offered a more personal view of the First Lady. Mahaux described Melania as both “strong” and capable of balancing her role behind the scenes. He highlighted her ability to be “really good at balancing her husband” while remaining steadfast in her family values and commitment to supporting him without seeking the spotlight.
Despite the private nature of her role, Mahaux pointed out that Melania has evolved over time. He noted that she is “a different person than she was eight years ago,” and now feels more confident in expressing herself and taking more control of her narrative. Her private life and relationship with Donald Trump, however, remain largely out of the public eye.
Melania’s Family Focus and Avoidance of Political Spotlight
For Melania Trump, family always comes first. While she holds the title of First Lady, her son, Barron Trump, is her primary focus. As Barron continues his education at Stern Business School, Melania’s priorities clearly lie with her family, leading her to spend less time in Washington and more time with her son.
A source close to Melania revealed that she doesn’t feel obligated to fully immerse herself in the political world. While she cares deeply about children’s well-being, she does not see herself as a political figure and is selective about when she engages with public affairs. The source emphasized that Melania’s approach is very much in contrast to that of her husband, remaining more private and understated compared to his first wife, Ivana Trump, or second wife, Marla Maples.
While Melania’s role as First Lady may look different this time around, her primary commitment to her family and personal values remains unchanged. Whether or not she takes on a significant role in the administration, it is clear that she intends to define her own path on her terms.