In his new memoir, Elton John provides a detailed account of his friendship with Michael Jackson and the profound effects of fame on Jackson’s mental health. Elton describes how their relationship evolved from when Jackson was a young, charismatic 13-year-old to a troubled adult, reflecting on the dramatic changes he observed in Jackson over the years.
Observations of Jackson’s Transformation
Elton John recalls meeting Michael Jackson at the age of 13, describing him as “the most charming youngster you could imagine.” However, as Jackson’s fame grew, Elton noticed a troubling shift in his behavior. He observed that Jackson increasingly detached from reality, reminiscent of the decline seen in Elvis Presley. Elton reflects on this change, noting that every subsequent encounter with Jackson left him with the impression that Jackson had “completely lost his mind.”
Disturbing Behavior and Medication Issues
Elton John also comments on Jackson’s erratic behavior and heavy reliance on medication. He states, “God alone knows what was going on in his head, and why he was so full of medicine.” Elton describes a particularly unsettling incident where Jackson, attending one of Elton’s parties, became overwhelmed and was later found playing with the housekeeper’s son. This incident highlighted Jackson’s inability to cope with adult interactions, as Elton observed, “For whatever reason, he couldn’t bear being among adults.”
Insights into Elton John’s Family Life
In addition to his reflections on Jackson, Elton John’s memoir delves into his own personal experiences. He shares insights into his strained relationship with his late mother, Sheila Farebrother, and her lack of involvement in his family life. Elton reveals that Sheila never met his two sons, Zachary and Elijah, whom he shares with his husband, David Furnish. He notes that Sheila’s disapproval of David was well-known, and he reflects on this by stating, “But I’m glad they didn’t know her because they would have chastised her in the same manner she chastised me.”
Personal Reflections and Legacy
Elton John’s memoir provides a deeply personal perspective on the impact of fame on Michael Jackson and offers an introspective look into his own family dynamics. Through his candid reflections, Elton sheds light on the challenges faced by those living in the public eye and the complex relationships that can shape one’s life and legacy.
