Sixteen years ago, Thomas Beatie made history as the world’s first man to experience pregnancy. Born female, Thomas transitioned to identify as a transgender man, and his journey to parenthood captured global attention when he gave birth to his first daughter, Susan.
While this milestone was groundbreaking, Thomas faced numerous challenges, including backlash from those who disapproved of a man carrying a child. Despite these obstacles, Thomas remained steadfast in his identity and went on to have two more children, further expanding his family.
A Transformative Journey
Born as Tracy Lehuanani LaGondino in 1974 in Hawaii, Thomas took a path that defied societal expectations. At the age of ten, he began identifying as a boy and started testosterone therapy at 23. Thomas’s ambition and drive were evident early on, as he pursued modeling and competed in the Miss Hawaii Teen USA contest. Additionally, he excelled in martial arts, winning a junior championship in the 1992 Aloha State Games.
By 2002, Thomas underwent surgery to remove his breasts and legally updated his gender to male. However, he chose to retain his female reproductive organs, a crucial decision that would later enable him to conceive and carry a child.
A Courageous Decision to Conceive
In 2006, after encountering fertility challenges with his then-wife Nancy, Thomas paused his testosterone therapy to pursue his dream of becoming a father. Determined to carry the child himself, he made the courageous decision to conceive. This decision was both personal and revolutionary, as it would change not only his life but also the perception of gender and parenthood.
The world first saw Thomas’s pregnant belly in 2008, and his story quickly went viral. He became known as the “pregnant man,” sparking widespread media attention and discussion.
Facing Hate and Discrimination
Despite his groundbreaking journey, Thomas faced significant adversity. Throughout his pregnancy and beyond, he received hate mail and threats from those who criticized his decision. He also encountered discrimination from medical professionals, some of whom refused to treat him or failed to acknowledge his male identity.
In his own words, Thomas shared, “Doctors have refused to treat us, citing their beliefs, and health workers ignored my male identity or failed to acknowledge Nancy as my wife. We’ve felt the sting of ridicule and lack of support.” These struggles only added to the difficulty of an already challenging journey.
Expanding His Family and Advocacy for Reproductive Rights
After a demanding 48-hour labor, Thomas gave birth to Susan, his first child, through a natural birth. This made him the first legally male individual to give birth within a marriage to a woman. His story continued to inspire as he later had two more children, Austin and Jensen, while navigating the complexities of fatherhood and gender.
Thomas’s narrative reached a broader audience in April 2008 when he appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show. During the interview, Thomas spoke openly about his experience, advocating for reproductive rights regardless of gender. His appearance helped elevate the conversation around gender identity, pregnancy, and the rights of transgender individuals.
Today, Thomas’s journey continues to resonate, as he and his family remain a testament to resilience and the ever-evolving definition of family.
