It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Lord Robert Fellowes, a respected figure within the British royal family and the beloved uncle of Prince Harry and Prince William. His death marks the end of an era, leaving behind a legacy of service, loyalty, and unwavering support for the royal family. Lord Robert’s contributions to the monarchy and his family will be remembered for years to come.
A Trusted Advisor and Loyal Supporter
Throughout his life, Lord Robert Fellowes was a source of strength and guidance to the royal family. Married to Jane Fellowes, he also held the prestigious role of the late Queen’s private secretary from 1990 to 1999. During this period, particularly in the challenging year of 1992—often called the “annus horribilis” for the royal family—Lord Robert stood by the Queen’s side, offering crucial advice during difficult times. This year saw numerous royal struggles, including Prince Charles’s troubled marriage, Prince Andrew’s divorce, and the devastating fire at Windsor Castle. Through it all, Lord Robert remained a steadfast and loyal advisor, providing invaluable support to the monarchy.
A Life of Service and Dedication
Born in 1941 at Sandringham House in Norfolk, Lord Robert Fellowes dedicated much of his life to service. After his time at Eton College, he joined the Scots Guards in 1960 and later pursued a career in banking. His commitment to duty led him to the Royal Household, where he began his career as an Assistant Private Secretary in 1977. Over the years, Lord Robert’s hard work and dedication saw him rise to the position of Private Secretary, a role he held for 20 years. His service was duly recognized by Queen Elizabeth II, who awarded him the Royal Household Long and Faithful Service Medal.
A Loving Husband and Devoted Father
Beyond his professional achievements, Lord Robert Fellowes was also a devoted family man. He married Lady Jane Fellowes in 1978 at Westminster Abbey, a joyful occasion that was made even more special by the presence of Lady Jane’s sister, Diana Spencer, who served as a bridesmaid. The couple went on to have three children—Eleanor Ruth, Alexander Robert, and Laura Jane—whom they raised together, supporting one another through life’s challenges. His family was always his greatest source of strength, and they shared a bond that endured through both good and difficult times.
Fond Remembrances of Princess Diana
Lord Robert’s personal connection to the royal family was also marked by his deep affection for Princess Diana. Her tragic death in 1997 affected him profoundly, as it did the entire royal family. In an interview with The Telegraph, Lord Robert spoke with great empathy for Diana’s struggles, recalling her remarkable personality and the challenges she faced. His reflections on Diana revealed a man who understood the complexities of happiness and the pressures that come with public life, leaving behind a legacy of compassion and understanding.
Honoring Lord Robert Fellowes’ Legacy
As we say goodbye to Lord Robert Fellowes, we remember the profound impact he had on the royal family and those around him. His loyalty, kindness, and dedication to service were unparalleled, and he leaves behind a legacy that will continue to inspire. Lord Robert’s contributions will be cherished, and his unwavering support for his family will forever be remembered. May he rest in peace, and may his family find comfort in the love and admiration that surrounds his memory.
